Control is an all or nothing concept. You can’t “kind of” or “pretty much” control anything. Therefore, if it doesn’t pertain to your primary existence, the concept of control doesn’t apply. You can’t control the way your friends, spouse, partner, children, students, co-workers, employees, board members or customers think, nor can you control how they behave. At best, you can influence their thoughts and behaviors. Realistically, this is the limit of your control. Until you let go of any fantasies about being able to exert control in the secondary world, you can’t begin to find your true potential of your power to influence.
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